Sacrament of Reconciliation
In my homily this past Sunday, I encouraged us to consider tapping into the grace we receive from the Sacrament of Reconciliation. I know that Confession can be a tough one for many (and for a variety of reasons).
First, let me assure you of the absolute confidentiality of anything said in the confessional. The confessional seal, as it is called, is more than confidentiality or secrecy. Nothing you say in the context of confession can be revealed by the priest to anyone under any circumstances. This is, in fact, so serious that any priest who breaks the seal is excommunicated. According to the Code of Canon Law #1388: “A confessor who directly violates the seal of confession incurs an automatic excommunication reserved to the Apostolic See; if he does so only indirectly, he is to be punished in accord with the seriousness of the offense.”
Moving on from this, I also want to offer something else to give you peace of mind. Guess what? I usually forget what you confessed moments after you leave the confessional. Also, I prefer if you go behind the screen, as do most priests. In our confessional, you can see me from behind the screen, but I cannot see you at all. You are, of course, welcome to go face-to-face, but I find it more prayerful when the penitent is behind the screen, kneeling .
Now, why should you go? As I said in the homily, Penance is helpful to our spiritual journey, whether our sins are mortal or venial. The sacrament is primarily for mortal sins, but is also very helpful for venial sins. By tackling this smaller sins often, we are less likely to fall into bigger sins or commit sin as often, in general. So, think of a way to go with some frequency. Remember, at minimum, a Catholic must go once a year.
Often, people are unsure what to confess or are unaware of their sins. Consider a daily examination of conscience at the beginning or end of the day. Think of the 10 commandments and run through those. The USCCB has a number of examinations on its website. At the end of my article, I will list some resources for understanding Confession better and some possible examinations.
Lastly, as I encourage Reconciliation, be assured that more opportunities will be offered. This fall, we will have weekday Confession times as well as Adoration of the Blessed Sacrament, hopefully at times that are convenient for those who work, manage various sized families, and mothers or fathers taking care of little ones at home.
Peace, Fr. Christopher
RESOURCES:
5 Reasons to go to confession beside forgiveness of sins
Sacrament of Reconciliation beginning catholic.com
Examination of Conscience usccb.org